Thanks so much Shqina. I really appreciate your thoughtful, warm and affirming response.

Your contemplation on the journey towards radical honesty resonated deeply with me. The way you articulate the complexities of truthfulness, kindness, and the dynamics of relationships is both refreshing and thought-provoking.

I appreciate how you candidly shared your personal reflections on honesty, acknowledging the nuances between being completely truthful and navigating the potential hurt it may cause. Your honesty about not always speaking up due to reasons ranging from apathy to fear is relatable and speaks to the human struggle of balancing convictions with practical social interactions.

Your mention of prioritizing kindness resonates profoundly. It’s a reminder that truth, when wielded without compassion, can sometimes cause more harm than good. Your exploration of this tension invites readers to consider their own values and the trade-offs we make in our daily interactions.

The three steps towards radical honesty that you shared—especially the emphasis on building relationships grounded in love and kindness—are practical and inspiring. They challenge us to aspire towards authenticity in our conversations and engagements, anchored in a deeper understanding of truth as a gift within relationships rather than a weapon.

Thank you for sharing your journey and insights with such openness. It’s clear that your blog is not just about sharing ideas but inviting readers to reflect and grow alongside you. I look forward to reading more of your reflections on this important topic.

Best regards,

Shqina

Great insights there Ian. I think in terms of the 3 T’s – Truth, Tone and Timing. We need to make sure all are in alignment. Sometimes in a crisis this is more difficult.
Great to hear from you!

Thanks Phillip. Enjoy catching up on some of the great work you are doing through seeing some of your LinkedIn posts.

Thanks Geff. I always value the times I get to preach at Cooby. Such a great group of people.