Our Broken World: A Week in my Australia
Occasionally I invite some of our readers to write up their thoughts and experiences. Mal W Good describes himself as a pastor, intercultural worker and working class theologian. His experiences of working with Fourth World peoples are sobering and important to think about. In this post he talks about a week in my Australia – a very different week to the ones most of us enjoy. I am grateful to him for recording his experiences. If you would like to get in touch with Mal you can email him using the format malgood at gmail dot com (written like that lest you are hacking computer!) Here...
Read MoreRefresh: Arguing for the Sake of Heaven – Why we need Curious Conversations
Today’s Refresh was originally posted in May 2021, and if anything is more relevant today than when it first appeared. I especially love the Jonathan Sacks insight that it is better to lose an argument, for when we do, we gain new knowledge, whereas when we win an argument, we simply have an established view reinforced. It’s a refreshing take. Roll on the losses! Arguing for the Sake of Heaven: Why we need Curious Conversations I wonder if you, like me, are finding the polarising conversations taking place in the public square shrill, tiresome and destructive. We have lost the art of...
Read MoreFour things I’m Happy to be Accused of…
It’s a fractious age. Politics has always been divisive, but oh my, that has gone to new levels. Religion has been our second great divide, but even here, the arguments have sharpened and tolerance levels are low. While denominational divides are no longer seen as important, defining the kind of Christian you are is starting to matter, as versions of the Christian faith are becoming widely divergent. This is especially so when religion and politics bubble together in the same pot. A toxic mix of self interest gets God’s name attached to it, even though it is screamingly obvious...
Read MoreRefresh: Option B – When Life Doesn’t Run to Plan
Resentfully lamenting that our life dream has not come true can blind us to the new opportunities setbacks sometimes birth. Though rarely chosen, Option B can turn out to be better than option A. This post originally appeared in Feb 2022, and I am struck by how relevant it remains… Option B: When Life Doesn’t Run to Plan In their very readable book, Option B, Sheryl Sandberg and Adam Grant explore how to build resilience and find joy when option A for our life is no longer available. For Sheryl Sandberg it started when she discovered her husband Dave collapsed on the gym floor...
Read MoreNature, Nurture; Genes or Environment; Free Will or Predestination?
It was my very first assignment at University. The topic: “Discuss the nature, nurture controversy.” It was an interesting start to my academic career. My opening effort was awarded a modest 68%, my lecturer accusing me of mild bias, though not clarifying towards which side. My later efforts were better rewarded, but I still remember this opening gambit with some affection, perhaps because the question is as unanswerable now as it was back in 1975 – oh my goodness yes, it was 50 years ago! It doesn’t really matter if your field is medicine, genetics, politics, ethics,...
Read MoreRefresh: From Platforms to Altars – Rediscovering Servant Leadership
The importance of servant leadership can’t be overstated. In a world where the focus is on the size of our platform, this post from April 2022 reminds us that it’s the altar we serve from that actually matters. If you want to dive into the topic more, have a listen to the discussion on “The Leader as Servant” on the Stirrers and Saints Podcast. From Platforms to Altars: Rediscovering Servant Leadership You know as well as I do that the list of fallen Christian leaders is growing at an alarming rate. Many have been high fliers, leaders who were widely lauded and...
Read MoreBecause feelings don’t happen to us, but for us…
My regular readers will know how often my blog posts are sparked by throw away comments from podcasts I have listened to that don’t necessarily have much to do with what the podcast was about, but do reflect how my mind worked after hearing the comment. This is one of those posts. And the comment? “Feelings don’t happen to us, but for us.” I won’t cite the podcast, as it really wasn’t about that – or I don’t think it was, as my brain had already raced away following the idea. Feelings get a mixed rap in the Christian tradition. I remember as a...
Read MoreRefresh: Thinking about Fixed and Growth Mindsets
Much has been written on growth and fixed mindsets. I like this post because it affirms the value of a growth mindset, while adding some important qualifiers that are sometimes overlooked. It was first published on the blog in May 2022. Thinking about Fixed and Growth Mindsets While Carol Dweck’s 2007 book Mindset is no longer new, it continues to spark rich conversations about the difference between fixed and growth mindsets. The basic thesis is simple: Some people approach life with a fixed mindset, assuming that they are born with certain talents and abilities and that relatively...
Read MoreThe God of Abraham, the God of Adventure and Jordan Peterson
Regardless of whether you are a Jordan Peterson fan or foe, you will surely agree that he is always interesting and gets you thinking. I am currently working my way through his latest tome, We who Wrestle with God, and will probably write more about it when I’m through. Having read several negative reviews of the book I had decided against purchasing it, but then heard Peterson talk about it in a fascinating two and a half hour podcast on the Diary of a CEO that touched on just about everything. God was woven lightly into the first half of the podcast, and then took up most of the...
Read MoreRefresh: On being still, not silent…
This weeks refresh post originally appeared on 14 August 2022. I keep coming back to its underlying ideas. There is such a big difference between stillness and silence. On being still, not silent I recently listened to a fascinating podcast where Alastair McIntosh reflects on Quakerism and unpacks some of its convictions. In a throw away comment he notes that it is often said that Quakers gather together in silence (no drums of smoke machines for them !) but that this is not entirely accurate – they gather together in stillness. He goes on to quote Ps 46:10 “Be still and know...
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