When the Mountain is You: Three Habits that Lead to Self-Sabotage
Most of us (and I include myself here) are instinctive blamers. When something goes wrong, it’s obvious whose fault it is. It’s theirs, and if it wasn’t for them, life would be so much better. The trouble is that every now and then we realise that that simply isn’t true. It is alleged that when asked the question “What’s wrong with the world?” the great G.K.Chesterton replied “I am”. You’ve completely missed the point if that makes you think we should blame Chesterton for everything! His counsel is wise. When looking for the cause...
Read MoreOn Turning 69…
My long term readers will know that as the 13th of July approaches I write a reflection on turning a year older. It’s part of my attempt to follow the instruction of Ps 90:12 “Teach us to number our days that we may gain a heart of wisdom”. And yes, a day after this post appears it is my birthday, a full 69 years since I gave my first wail on the 13 July 1957. Relax, no presents are required, but good wishes are always welcome! While getting older is sobering, it has many genuinely pleasing features. Increasingly people assume I am retired (I’m not – and work 4...
Read MoreOn Searching Your Heart: Reflections on Psalm 4:4
Recently I have been taking time to reflect more deeply on a few verses of scripture that have spoken to me. The latest is Psalm 4:4 “when you are on your beds, search your hearts and be silent”. I love the “and be silent” at the end. In other words, search your hearts, but don’t be super defensive. Don’t rush to a thousand excuses for why this is. Search your heart and sit with what you find. Think about it. Let it challenge you. Would you like what you find to be different? If so, what might you need to do? I’m also impressed that we should do this...
Read MoreTo be Known and Remembered: Reflections on Psalm 103:14
Sometimes a verse from the Bible jumps out at me and I know I need to journey with it. I’ve always loved Psalm 103, but verse 14 recently spoke to me in a fresh way: “for he knows how we are formed, he remembers that we are dust.” Immediately before the Psalmist had reassured us “As a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear him” (v13). While there is some Hebrew parallelism at play in “he knows how we are formed, he remembers that we are dust” when the poet essentially repeats a sentiment for emphasis, I...
Read MorePermanence, Pervasiveness and Agency: Three Questions that help to get things into perspective
The old ditto goes “Two men looked out through prison bars, the one saw mud, the other, stars”. I have always been intrigued by the very different responses people have to the same situation. What is a catastrophe for one, is an exciting adventure for another, what leads to a response of indifference from one person, sees another almost besides themself with indignation. While the difference in people’s responses is interesting, I have come to realise that far more is at stake. Some responses are life serving and lead to health and wholeness, while others shrink us, and see...
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